You are a treasure.

Author: Sarah Lahori

  • Love all: Courtesy of muscle memory

    With this month’s back-to-school theme, I wanted to put myself in a slightly uncomfortable position. Not because school itself is uncomfortable, but because learning is. I wanted to relearn things, challenge my limits, and expand my worldview—a constant undercurrent in how I navigate life. I decided to relearn tennis. Equipped with a $40 Target racket…

  • Seasons change

    Every September arrives with the same atmospheric indecision. Imagine crisp morning air, dry leaves underfoot, and unexpectedly warm afternoons. Standing in front of the wardrobe, I find myself caught in seasonal friction. How do I dress for this weather? Does this knitwear still work, or is it hopelessly “last year”? Does everything I know about personal…

  • September Lookbook: Summer farewell

    As delicate as the late-blooming windflower, September arrives with a distinct emotional baseline: nostalgia.  Whether it was just a few months ago or a decade past, we all carry that familiar back-to-school pulse. All the crisp poplin button-downs, breaking in stiff loafers, and feeling that unfiltered excitement to reunite with our circle. As adults, that optimism…

  • 5 senses: Clay under pressure

    On a random Monday evening in July, I walked into a wet pottery studio wearing a crisp, relaxed blue button-down and denim. It was an outfit that quietly betrayed my internal arrogance. Having watched dozens of social media videos of artisans effortlessly spinning raw clay into museum-worthy symmetry, I made a bold assumption: I’m going to…

  • Custom fits: Custom results

    Today, I urge you to look at your hard-earned money in a completely different light. You have likely read a hundred books and articles preaching the sacred gospel of saving money. Let’s be fair: building an emergency fund covering three months of living expenses is a brilliant, non-negotiable move. That is defensive baseline intelligence. But…

  • Mirror Mirror

    Do you always look at your own reflection when you pass by a mirror? I caught myself doing that today—it was a pivotal moment. I thought about how various different people look at themselves—are they avoiding, are they fixing their appearance, or are they smiling? It makes me think of how every time I meet…

  • Network like a Salesperson

    Networking is often misunderstood as a social endeavor. In high-stakes environments, it is a prospecting operation. If you want to leave the room with a win-win, you must not only socialize but start applying these principles of human conversion I learned as a salesperson. A Note on the Craft: These principles are not rigid rulebooks; they…

  • August Lookbook: Calendar Maxxing

    This August demands a strategy of navigating a calendar of high-stakes social commitments while fiercely protecting the space for a deliberate and much needed reset. I curated this month’s lookbook to anchor that exact tension. From the high-energy networking at the US Open and the refined ease of summer garden parties, to the minimalist luxury…

  • Finding the right fit.

    There are infinite ways to say something. Words are just one. “Sarah, what’s your opinion on this?” I froze. My friends were deep in conversation, and suddenly all eyes were on me. I had a hundred thoughts running through my head. I was agreeing and disagreeing silently with their opinions, mentally cataloging every angle of…

  • February Lookbook: Snowball Style

    It’s the second month of the year already? I said I was going to hit the gym everyday and read 30 pages every night.Thank God for February because I can try again this month. February is the perfect time to start fresh with Lunar New Year! You have so many to look forward to especially…